Do You Really Want to Catch Your Cheating Wife or Husband?

Do You Really Want to Catch Your Cheating Mate?

If you are suspicious that your significant other is cheating on you, then odds are that you are correct.  Intuition has proven to be correct in a significant number of cases. It's not anything supernatural either. When you live with someone a number of years, consciously and subconsciously you know when things are right and when things are wrong by reading subtle clues in their behavior and in their mannerisms. It may be a look in their eyes, or the way they hold their head when talking to you, or a different tone in their voice that tells you something isn't right.  Your subsconscious constantly reads these signals, analyzes them, and sends out a warning signal without you even realizing that the process is taking place. 

There are also a number of obvious physical signs that your wife or husband is cheating, but these will only just confirm that odd feeling in your stomach that something isn't right. A quick search on the internet will give you a list of the phsical signs.

It's human nature to want to find out the truth about an affair, but the first thing you need to decide is do you REALLY want to find out that your mate is cheating on you?

Can you live with that knowledge? Remember there are serious consequences.  Not just temporary consequences, but a lifelong changes that will affect you almost every waking moment if you continue the relationship after finding out the truth. 

If you have made the decision that you really want to know, then one of the best ways to confirm your suspicions is to find out what your mate is doing online. It's a fact that  Affairs and cheating relationships can't survive without ongoing and frequent communications.  Cheaters use cell phones, pay phones, pagers, email, chat rooms, and Instant Messaging to maintain illicit communications with the person they are cheating with.

So what's the answer? Internet monitoring is probably the easiest and most effiecient way to find out exactly what is going on.

With the proper software, you can secretly monitor exactly what takes place from the moment your cheating wife or husband sits down at a computer until they turn it off -and all without raising the slightest suspicion. And it's legal too.  Installation is not difficults either.

Wouldn't you like to see who they are sending emails to, what they are saying in the emails, what websites they are visiting, record what they are saying in chat rooms or instant messaging?  Want to find out their passwords to online accounts and emails? That's possible too.

If you have made up your mind that you can live with the consequences of having proof that your wife or husband is cheating then the best bet is to purchase software to monitor all their internet activities. 

Just make sure you really want to know, because with the software, you will find out.

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46 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair
By Dr. Robert Huizenga

Some of these are "tongue in cheek" while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear when someone is having an affair. There is no copyright. Feel free to forward to those who might be interested.

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.

2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)

3) He stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.

5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

7) She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.

8) He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.

9) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

12) He becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.

13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"

14) He buys himself new underwear.

15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16) She stops wearing her wedding ring.

17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.

23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and had to eat the dinner I prepared when he got home.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.

36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.

39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a "glow" about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He sneaks out of the house.

43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed

44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He tells you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.

46) The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.

Dr. Huizenga is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 20 years of professional experience, working with hundreds of couples and thousands of individuals. He has done extensive research and study in the specialty area of extramarital affairs.

Dr. Robert Huizenga
Bob@BobHuizenga.com
http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com

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