Once a cheater, always a cheater
by: califgirl1982
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I guess I should have known right from the beginning of our relationship that I couldn't trust my boyfriend. He dumped his old girlfriend so he could go with me. Well, actually, he cheated on her with me for a few months before he dumped her.
I am 18 and he is 25, and I think that was one reason I was attracted to him in the first place. I don't really like guys my age. I prefer older men. I once dated a guy that was 30. He was married so that didn't last too long. I felt bad about going with him so I broke it off.
I loved my boyfriend and he told me we were going to get married. Now I know I was stupid to believe that. I don't think he ever loved me. My girlfriends told me that they thought he was cheating on me. I should have listened to them, but I didn't want to even think about that.
I saw him once with another girl before we broke up. It was at a bar that I went to once in a while with my friends. I tried to talk to him at the bar, but he got mad and left with the girl. The next day he called and told me that he would have explained but he was too mad because I thought he was cheating on me. He said she was one of his friends girlfriend and he was helping her look for his friend at the bars.
It turned out that he was cheating with her for a long time before I found out. My best friend followed him one night when he said he had to work. My friend didn't tell me she was going to do it, but I'm glad she did it now. She said he drove to another bar on the other side of town. The girl was waiting in front of the bar when he got there. My girlfriend said they kissed and everything then they went inside the bar.
He called me that night, real late and said he just got off work and wanted to come over to see me. I kept asking him about work. He got mad and said I was stupid. I told him that I saw him with the girl at the bar because I didn't want him to hurt my girlfriend. He cussed and then told me he was sorry and would never do it again. He said he was drunk and didn't know he was doing it.
I broke up with him about a week later because I smelled perfume on him and knew he was lying for sure. It still hurts to think about him. I miss him a lot but I know he would cheat on me again. At night when I go to bed I think about him and think I might go back to him, but in the morning I always change my mind.
I still love him and maybe I will give him another chance.
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My name is not really califgirl.
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